30 Ways to Care for Someone Who is Grieving

Knowing what to do for somone who has lost a loved one is very difficult. Here is a list of things that you could do to show then that you care and want to help.

  1. Listen
  2. Call ‘just because’
  3. Send a card
  4. Be patient
  5. Listen
  6. Walk together
  7. Remember special days
  8. Dust, vacuum, and sweep
  9. Wash the car
  10. Sit silently, if that’s what is needed
  11. Listen
  12. Do laundry
  13. Babysit
  14. Bring in a meal
  15. Have no expectations
  16. Listen
  17. Bake cookies
  18. Mow the grass
  19. Don’t assume
  20. Listen
  21. Water the plants
  22. Go out for coffee
  23. Mention his or her name
  24. Listen
  25. Don’t be afraid of tears
  26. Look at pictures, when it’s time
  27. Plant flowers
  28. Cry till you laugh, and laugh until you cry
  29. Hurt, too
  30. Listen
Contributed by Hospice & Palliative Care Charlotte Region